1 IN 8

Infertility affects 1 in 8 couples. That means it is very likely that you or someone you know suffers with infertility. It is not like any other disease process out there. For some there will never be an explanation why they can't have children and for others they may know but have no control over fixing the situation. There is no cure for infertility. Doctors can't just give you medicine and fix you and it's over. That means for those struggling with this process they must go through costly testing and taking numerous medications for just the opportunity to get pregnant. This doesn't offer a guarantee of a baby bump but only an OPPORTUNITY to get closer to one. This week is National Infertility Awareness Week. I ask before you ask a couple of child-bearing age who has been together for a while their family intentions, stop a moment and consider that this may be the one in eight and phrase your questions delicately. There is a lot of pain that goes with infertility. Listen with open ears and an open heart. Realize these couples have a hard time talking about their journey to begin with. Realize that some couples may have one child but be struggling to have another. Some couples struggle with secondary infertility. NEVER say it will be ok. Be supportive and just offer to be their friend and be there. It isn't about relaxing. Realize that treatments are very costly so recommending things like IUI, IVF or adoption come with a hefty price tag that most insurances do NOT cover. Imagine what it's like to be broke before you have even gotten in to the hospital room to potentially deliver. Hugs to all my friends that share this journey and to those of you who may sit in silence love to you and your family struggling with acceptance. Thank you all who have been there for us as we have taken this journey. May we all find peace some day where ever our journeys lead us.